Meaning of Chastity

Chastity is sexual behavior of a man or woman acceptable to the ethical norms and guidelines of a culture, civilization, or religion.In the western world, the term has become closely associated (and is often used interchangeably) with sexual abstinence, especially before marriage. However, the term remains applicable to persons in all states, single or married, clerical or lay, and has implications beyond sexual temperance.

Sexual slavery

Getting a man to accept sexual slavery is easier in a new and uncommitted relationship than in an established and committed one. When the relationship is new, he's turned on to you, concerned about pleasing you, probably in love with you.

You don't have to overcome established patterns of interaction that are inconsistent with female domination, and he's encouraged by the thought that if the experiment goes badly, he can cut his losses and flee. On the downside, there's a much greater risk that the mere attempt will scare him away for good.

In a committed relationship, you'll have to work harder to enslave your partner and there's a greater probability that you'll fail, but the chance that the attempt will end the relationship is slim. In an uncommitted relationship, the least likely of the three possible outcomes is that he'll refuse to become your love slave but remain willing to negotiate some other arrangement.

I enslaved all my lovers early. Since I wasn't interested in any other sort.of relationship, I didn't worry about scaring them off. Only two ran, but don't let that encourage you more than it should. Remember, anyone can see before getting involved with me that I'm a tease. Remember too that I'm rarely attracted to a man unless my intuition tells me he's well suited to my agenda.

If the same number of partners had been assigned to me at random, I'm sure at least three would have run. What I'm getting at is that my advice is based on the assumption that you're not worried about losing your man. If you are, be forewarned that I haven't taken that into account. You may lose him. Use your priorities, not mine, in deciding whether to accept the risk.

The way I invited Patrick to become my love slave is just one possibility among many. You would likely set up a different scenario. It's exact nature would depend on your age and experience, your partner's age and experience, quirks of your personality and his, the degree to which you're worried about venereal infection, and so on. We'll look here at some of the possibilities - not all, by any means, but a few that seem generally useful.

I'll proceed from the assumption that you're truly determined to enslave your man. This will permit me the corollary assumption that you're willing to wield the one threat that underlies all female domination: Your man can't have you except on your terms. You have to be willing to make that a rule, make it clear, and enforce it. If he won't do as you say, put some distance between you and leave him sexually frustrated, accepting your own unsatisfied lust as an unfortunate necessity.

Cuckold husband

Traditionally, cuckold husbands were the object of scorn and derision; when it was discovered that a man's wife had found fulfillment in another man's bed, she was an adulteress and he was her cuckold. It was often said that he "left with his tail between another man's legs."

The dictionary defines a cuckold husband as "a man with an unfaithful wife."

In the context of alternative lifestyles, the cuckold husband occupies a position somewhere between the traditional definition and that of "swingers." The difference with the first definition is that today's cuckold husbands are both aware of wife's "infidelity" and are sexually excited by it; the difference with the second definition is that "swingers" are mutually involved, or at least approach the sex bed as equals, which is not the case with a cuckold husband.

In plain English, cuckold husbands are men who stand by and accept wife's infidelity, being sexually excited by her actions. They may have normal sexual relations with their wife part of the time, or they may accept that the wife has chosen another man to replace them completely in her sexual bed.

Chastity tubes and cages

Chastity tubes or chastity cages are a category of device designed to prevent direct stimulation of male genitalia. Although they are designed for use without a supporting belt that goes around the wearer's waist, these devices are nevertheless frequently described as "chastity belts".

Most chastity tubes basically have two parts: A ring seated around the base of the penis behind the scrotum and a capped tube, into which the flaccid penis is inserted. The tube is perforated at the end to allow urine to drain easily. The two parts mate together on hinges or pins and are usually secured together with a padlock. The assembled device traps the testicles in a gap between the base of the tube and the ring. These devices are either adjustable or made to specification so that the gap is narrow enough to prevent the testes from being pulled out.

Some designs have a curved or angled tube to make erections uncomfortable. Other devices are sized for a flaccid sized penis, again to make erections uncomfortable.

Some chastity tubes have urethral inserts. Needless to say, extreme caution is advised when selecting a device to be inserted into the male urethra as severe medical injury could result from sharp edges or allergic reaction. Generally speaking, only medical grade stainless steel (316L) is considered safe enough for this application.

As with "regular" chastity belts, chastity tubes are also sometimes to designed to work with genital piercings for added security.

A popular example of the chastity tube was the CB-2000 and its descendants, introduced in 1999 by A. L. Enterprises, which were discreet to wear and affordable.[8]

A new model of medical silicone cage called "Birdlocked" made its appearance in 2009. This cage is unbreakable and very comfortable. It offers a unique closure, no pain is found even during a night.

Chastity belt

A chastity belt is a locking item of clothing designed to prevent sexual intercourse. They may be used to protect the wearer from rape or temptation. Some devices have been designed with additional features to prevent masturbation. Chastity belts have been created for males and females.

The term "chastity belt" is also used as a metaphor in modern English to imply overprotectiveness. The term carries a derisive connotation and may also imply that the subject is antiquated, or is cumbersome, or provides unnecessary or unwanted protection.

According to modern myth the chastity belt was used as an anti-temptation device during the Crusades. When the knight left for the Holy Lands on the Crusades, he would force his Lady to wear a chastity belt to preserve her faithfulness to him. There is no credible evidence that chastity belts existed before the 15th century, more than one hundred years after the last Crusade.

The actual use, if any, of medieval chastity belts would have been very limited, as the metalworking of the times would have made it difficult to fashion a belt safe for long-term wear.[1]